Reflection over one’s shoulder or seeking it in a mirrored pond can be deceiving. Akin to a form of nostalgia, it might make a person homesick for the good old days. Where everything felt rosier and restorative. Reflection is a necessary part of the process of living as is the continued intake of breath.
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
Next Calendar Orbit
Reflection over one’s shoulder or seeking it in a mirrored pond can be deceiving. Akin to a form of nostalgia, it might make a person homesick for the good old days. Where everything felt rosier and restorative. Reflection is a necessary part of the process of living as is the continued intake of breath.
Saturday, December 28, 2024
Spirit of Christmas Present Rings True from Christmas Past
“Oh, Man! look here. Look, look, down here!” exclaimed the Ghost.
They were a boy and girl. Yellow, meagre, ragged, scowling, wolfish; but prostrate, too, in their humility. Where graceful youth should have filled their features out, and touched them with its freshest tints, a stale and shrivelled hand, like that of age, had pinched, and twisted them, and pulled them into shreds. Where angels might have sat enthroned, devils lurked, and glared out menacing. No change, no degradation, no perversion of humanity, in any grade, through all the mysteries of wonderful creation, has monsters half so horrible and dread.
Scrooge started back, appalled. Having them shown to him in this way, he tried to say they were fine children, but the words choked themselves, rather than be parties to a lie of such enormous magnitude.
“Spirit! are they yours?” Scrooge could say no more.
“They are Man’s,” said the Spirit, looking down upon them. “And they cling to me, appealing from their fathers. This boy is Ignorance. This girl is Want [greed]. Beware them both, and all of their degree, but most of all beware this boy, for on his brow I see that written which is Doom, unless the writing be erased. Deny it!” cried the Spirit, stretching out its hand towards the city. “Slander those who tell it ye! Admit it for your factious purposes, and make it worse. And bide the end!”
“Have they no refuge or resource?” cried Scrooge.
“Are there no prisons?” said the Spirit, turning on him for the last time with his own words. “Are there no workhouses?”
The bell struck twelve."
Tuesday, December 24, 2024
Holiday Notions for a Peaceful World
Rhythms of repetition circle our days. The sink full of dishes, empty only moments ago. The elusive laundry basket of holding transforms full to empty to full again. Spherical embroidery of life winks in the corner of our eye.
Unable to find where we begin or where the other end might be, we continue doing the dishes. Washing the laundry. We take round things apart to put them back together again. And we watch the moon wax and wane with mysterious delight.
In the midst of this plenty many are in want. For peace. For quiet skies absent of artillery. Unshattered homes snug inside warm beds. A gleeful breath resolute and fearless. For want of an unbroken heart.
When the wrapping paper lay in shreds and the twinkling lights are packed tightly in their boxes, may we share our plenty in the days ahead with those in want.
Sunday, December 22, 2024
10 Tips for Parents from John Marsden
1. Give children space. Back off. Let them roam. Let them be bored. Don't over-plan their lives. Cut way back on the after-school activities programs.
2. Keep away from all those ghastly, soulless, sterile playgrounds. Keep away from shopping malls. Look for real places. Wild places.
3. Be an adult. Say no to your children at least once a day. If the role of Adult in your family is vacant, then one of your children will fill it. And it won't be pretty.
4. Don't take up all the space. If you are dominating, loud, forceful, your children are highly likely to become passive, lacking spirit and personality … and/or sullen.
5. Believe about 40 per cent of the dramatic stories your children tell you of the injustices, corruption and satanic practices happening at school.
6. Teach them empathy. For example, after their jubilant victory celebrations when they win a sporting match, remind them that their jubilation was only possible because someone else – the losers – have been made to feel awful.
7. Help them develop language skills. Don't finish their sentences for them. Don't correct them when they mispronounce a word – they'll work it out sooner or later. Ask them open-ended questions, that need a detailed answer, not Yes/No questions.
8. Make sure they have regular jobs/duties at home and that those jobs are done to a consistently high standard.
9. Don't whinge endlessly about the miseries of your adult life. A lot of children now are fearful about growing up because their parents paint such a grim picture of the awfulness ahead.
10. Teach them to be very wary of people who Absolutely Know the Absolute Truth about Absolutely Everything! The colour of truth is always grey. Extreme positions are for the ignorant. Every creature, every person and every situation is complex. The universe is a wonderful mystery.
Wednesday, November 20, 2024
Macmillan's Pocket Classics ~ A history lesson on the life of Robert O. Boyd
This time of year, it is common to be on the hunt for engaging books to read, and the Macmillan's Pocket Classics are always top of the search list. This November I found Poe's Prose Tales on eBay from a seller in Sheldon Connecticut. The inscription on the inside cover of one of the previous, possibly the original owner is Robert O. Boyd. There is also the word Enterprise, most likely a town as it is capitalized, as well as what appears to be Oregon (although it is squished along the edge, the g is distinctive from the the y and p in the other writing).
Engage research mode on the interwebs... we found the most likely match for Robert.
Robert Osborn Boyd was born on 29 July 1903, in Kennewick, Benton, Washington, United States, his father, Daniel Boyd Sr, was 27 and his mother, Mary Ethelwyne Axtell, was 28. He lived in United States in 1949 and Portland, Multnomah, Oregon, United States in 1950. He died on 10 September 1979, in Alexandria, Fairfax County, Virginia, United States, at the age of 76, and was buried in Enterprise, Wallowa, Oregon, United States.
We were a bit miffed at first why this book was in Connecticut if the previous owner wrote they lived in Oregon. Old books of this age usually don't travel quite so far east from a westerly home, especially in early to mid 20th century. People moving west was a normal course of trajectory in that age and time. This book seemed a long way away from home but the information we found tells us that when Robert passed away in Virginia this book stayed behind on the east coast and his body came back to Oregon.
Always interesting to research where the books in our collection have traveled.
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Saturday, October 12, 2024
First Snow
Saturday, July 13, 2024
Much Needed Rain
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Saturday, June 8, 2024
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
Saturday, April 13, 2024
Another
They think there will always be another. Another friend, another lover, another moment. Another town. Another job. Another day. Another dawn at the threshold to greet fate. Welcome, come in inevitable. You've been waiting. Patient soul.
Thursday, April 11, 2024
Saturday, March 30, 2024
Our Soul
We have no control over where our soul gets planted on earth. Our soul does not have the privilege of choice. It can't plead its way into abundance. It can't buy its way out of poverty. Our soul, our person is simply where we wake to find ourselves.
Friday, March 8, 2024
Self Evident Truth
If ever you question your belief in one person or another, dig deep in your heart as there lies the truth.
Leeches will bleed you dry for their own edification. Lose not yourself in the letting. Hearts truth, place your trust, it's your only defense.
Monday, March 4, 2024
Regret
Regret falls from the sky like bitter licorice drops. Saturating the ground with sticky residue. It clings to your shoes, and tracks through your house. Unable to remove its remnants, regret collects the remaining discarded grey dusty ash left behind by laments rash misdeeds.
Friday, February 23, 2024
Current Habits Challenge
Challenge your current habits!
Habits are a powerful and useful tool to get things done effectively and efficiently. But once formed, they often go unquestioned and unchallenged. When left unchecked, they become an excuse for accepting best practices and ignoring the inevitable truth that there is always a better way."
Mark Twain once said: “A habit cannot be tossed out the window; it must be coaxed down the stairs a step at a time.”
Thursday, February 22, 2024
We have been persuaded!
Over the past 100 years we have been persuaded to become the ultimate consumer, perhaps against our will, and most definitely without our conscious knowledge.
Below is from "A Brief History of Consumer Culture" published on
The MIT Press Reader. Which is an article adapted from Kerryn Higgs
book “Collision Course: Endless Growth on a Finite Planet”
Sobering words to ponder:
Frederick Allen wrote in1931, “Business had learned as never before the importance of the ultimate
consumer. Unless [the consumer] could be persuaded to buy and buy lavishly, the
whole stream of six-cylinder cars, [], cigarettes, rouge compacts and electric
ice boxes would be dammed up at its outlets.”
"President
Herbert Hoover’s 1929 Committee on Recent Economic Changes welcomed
the demonstration “on a grand scale [of] the expansibility of human wants and
desires,” hailed an “almost insatiable appetite for goods and services,” and
envisaged “a boundless field before us … new wants that make way endlessly for
newer wants, as fast as they are satisfied.” In this paradigm, people are
encouraged to board an escalator of desires (a stairway to heaven, perhaps) and
progressively ascend to what were once the luxuries of the affluent."
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Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Placement
If the soul has a say in where it was to be placed on earth, the conscience keeps no remembrance. If it was merely a request, how does it know that it was granted or den
Monday, February 19, 2024
Sell them their dreams!
"Sell them their dreams. Sell them what they longed for and hoped for and almost despaired of having. Sell them dreams—dreams of country clubs and proms and visions of what might happen if only. After all, people don’t buy things to have things. They buy things to work for them. They buy hope—hope of what your merchandise will do for them. Sell them this hope and you won’t have to worry about selling them goods."
Friday, February 9, 2024
Thursday, February 8, 2024
On Being Right
An overwhelming desire to be right, could lead to an irrevocable wound in a treasured relationship.
Granted this is a complicated statement, and there are multi-layered factors that need to be considered before any semblance of an answer can find a foundation. Starting with the type of relationship: is it a parent and a child, extended family members, life-long friends or a partner relationship; each hold background causal factors, that lead to the desire to be right. Each person’s life experiences, as well as, the relationship being healthy and balanced or shrouded by an underlying complication, needs to be measured as a foundational block to this statement’s validity.
So today it is worth asking, in this moment in time is being right worth the wound?
Secondary question one might ask: is it a desire to be right or is it a desire to prove another person wrong?
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
Hershey's Bar Day
It won't fill your belly but it'll make you forget you're hungry. If only for a while.
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Monday, February 5, 2024
Gusty Days
Sunday, February 4, 2024
Landing the Truth
We are not responsible for anyone else's happiness, and a safe landing is not always a greaser.
Wisdom from my aviator husband.
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